Dr. Bob Huizenga has recently written about what he calls the Revenge Affair as one of the identifiable types of infidelity. What is it?
The obvious answer is that when your partner has had an affair, you get back at him or her by having one of your own. Simple, right? Well, yes and no, because I think that emotional revenge or distancing can happen in a number of ways using a number of tools.
Can you be untrue to your relationship by how you relate to:
- your children?
- your grandchildren?
- your job?
- your hobby?
- your humanitarian causes?
I think that you can. It all depends on how you do it, what your intention is, and how it affects your partner.
Worth some thought? That's up to you.
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